Aligning Action To Intention
Buddhi – Acceptance
The second thing you need is buddhi, acceptance - to connect and relate, live with the things which can't be changed. There are so many things which need not be changed and which can't be changed, like death. Not only your death, but the death of near and dear ones also. Sometimes, you may lose your loved one or the love from that person.
There are some things which can't be changed and which need not be changed. Start living with them, with the buddhi or intelligence to live with it, to accept it, to connect with it.