SEARCHING FOR CERTIFICATES
All the time we are looking to see how we can collect certificates from people! Every action of ours is unconsciously related to what people will say to it and how people will react to it.
For example, a bag may come reasonably within your budget and it may have a good utility value also.
But unconsciously, your mind will say that people may not appreciate the look of the bag very much. You start choosing again! But you will not agree that you are searching for certificates, because it is an unconscious process in you!
What you didn't know about attention need!
Attention need is the first, foremost thought current, thought patterns which gets created in your system All the emotions are centred on "attention need".
First thing, you need to know, your emotions are not you. Your emotions are a result of years of conditioning, that has gone into you. you have been conditioned on multiple levels; Parents, siblings, other family members, teachers, friends.
Whatever we do, whatever we think, we are subconsciously seeking concurrence and approval from the people around us in some subtle way.
We are very keen that we should earn a good name from everyone. We may not do this in a very obvious fashion, but if you analyse deeply, you will not be at ease without the appreciation and endorsement of the people around you.
This endorsement, this approval, is what we call 'attention-need'.
How to unblock your Anahata chakra?
when you do with love and affection the anahata chakra opens. when you do with love and affection you never feel tired.
When you do it for the sake of love and affection, when you do it selflessly, when you allow it to happen, energy simply flows, you don't feel tired. When you do it expecting the result, opinion, energy gets blocked.
What Is Real Love ?
Real love knows no object. It is simply there whether there is an object or not. Real love is the subject itself. It does not know any object. You are the subject and you have become love, that's all. Any object that comes in touch with it, feels it. Just like a river flows naturally and people enjoy it at the different places that they encounter it, real love exudes from a person and the people around him will be able to feel it.
love all
Real love is something so deep, so energizing, that you will not know it unless you experience it. Love is an expression of energy, not something that is transacted. You can love the trees on the road, you can caress them and feel the energy flow from you.
You can love people whom you pass by on the road without even knowing them. Love is actually your very being, not a distilled quality that you possess. Nothing is as misconstrued as love is today.
Today, love is more of a transaction. If someone says something nice to you, you love him; tomorrow if the same person falls short of it, you don't love him that much or you probably hate him.