Take responsibility for your relationship🔗

Q: Is it right to have a live-in relationship for a year before marriage? After one year, suppose I feel that I am not compatible with my boyfriend, should I dump him? How many men will I 'try out' like this before finding the right life partner? What is the solution?

Come on! On one side you want freedom, and on the other side you don't want to take responsibility for making the relationship work!

You can go on trying until you are forty, or take responsibility to settle with one person within one year. Use that one year not to decide whether you should dump him or live with him, but to make yourself settle with him and make the other person accept you.

That is why I use the word tapas.

I am not asking you to 'try out' the person! I am asking you to do this as a tapas, because you should be constantly working on yourself to make it happen. If you are working on yourself, naturally the first one itself will click or at the most, the second one. You don't need to be constantly trying out. So don't go on asking me for solutions for every small point, so that later on you can blame me! No! I can give only the options. You will have to make your own decisions.