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Understanding Self-acceptance

You are beautiful enough unto yourself. Every being is beautiful. With what scale are you measuring beauty? There is no scale. It is all your own ideas and concepts. Even if your so-called cinema idol is beautiful, can you enjoy a single cup of tea through his or her form?

Please understand that you are beautiful enough. When you start longing for other people's bodies, you create a wedge inside yourself. You create a split personality inside yourself. When you think that another's body is more beautiful, you create a distance between you and you. You start hating yourself.

When you accept yourself completely, a certain grace comes to you. This grace is far superior to your so-called beauty. When you enjoy yourself totally, a certain grace happens in you and you will appear more beautiful than some of the most so-called beautiful people around you. You will then become a trendsetter.

A leader is one who has totally accepted himself. When you accept yourself, you become a unique flower, and tremendous freedom and confidence will happen in you. All your guilt and hatred about your body will be replaced by pure confidence and grace.

It is very important that you learn to live with your own body. The moment you think that another's body or another's dimensions are more attractive, you create a gap between yourself and your body. When you have self-respect, you appreciate that each one is unique and understand that there is no scope for comparison. This is also the first step towards feeling grateful for just being!