True lovers will not actually fight for retaining their individualities. Only by mutual self-sacrifice, they will protect their individualities.
Do not mix up the sacred feeling of love with feelings of lust and infatuation, etc. Infatuation is only one aspect of love. Infatuation is connected with the body only.
If it is a feeling of true love, we forget ourselves and have a great and nice feeling of praise for others. But if it is a feeling of infatuation, we forget others and give importance and prominence to ourselves only.
Love is not one of robbing and ruining others. Infatuation is, in the name of mutuality, deceiving each other. It is only for this reason there is absolutely no feeling of closeness and a sense of security between two persons who are attracted to each other merely by infatuation. That is why they drift apart.
What comes at a very young age is just bodily infatuation. It is misunderstood as love.
Giving importance to this sort of confusing feelings will only lead to unnecessary, complicated problems. So, in the matter of love, one has to be very careful.
Reason: At the age of youth, when there will be changes in the levels of hormones, it is rather difficult to differentiate between true love and infatuation. If it is self who has fallen in love, due to the presence of ego, the mind will assert and emphatically say it is true love. Youth and immaturity will cause this.
If one possesses a very large amount of awareness as well as intelligence, it will be possible to distinguish between love and infatuation.
| Best lover (male) | - Good friend (male) |
|---|---|
| Best lover (female) - Good friend (female | |
| Best parents | Good friends |
| Best brother | Good friend |
| Best sister | Good friend (female) |
In this manner, when we indicate our relationships as the best ones, there is no harm pointing them out as good friends. In all relationships, when friendship blossoms in them, they attain completeness.
Start traveling from love towards real affection!
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