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If you do not work out the desires that you brought with you, that is your prarabdha, you become suicidal; you develop cancer. Right from birth we bring with us the plan for major events such as what we want to be in terms of career, marriage, children, etc.
The idea that your desires are never to be fulfilled is wrong. Drop that idea. Prarabdha karma itself means desires that you bring along with its own energy for fulfillment. Understand this very clearly.
Our desires are like Pandora's box! We have accumulated so many and kept them. Now, open Pandora's box and see what is inside. Do not condemn your desires; do not suppress them; do not judge. Whatever is there, let it out. We can classify desires into four types: desires to do with sensual pleasures, name and fame, material possessions and spiritual experiences.
Write down all your desires. Do not edit them as you write. Write in the language you think is the most effective way to express your desires. It is for you and only you. Write on a separate paper. When you have finished writing, go through your desires. Wherever you find a self contradicting thought or desire, change it to a positive thought. For example, instead of saying, 'I should not be poor', you can say, 'I should be wealthy.' Drop the word poor. Every time you use the word poor, you are empowering it along with the words 'I should not be'. So change the sentence to the corresponding positive statement: I should be wealthy.
Let go of the negative thoughts. You can follow this small technique to get rid of the negative words in your system: Talk to yourself especially in the mornings and before going to bed. Express all your thoughts only through positive words. Use that