Don't kill your transformation
Spontaneous lying is the pattern that never allows any transformation in you. It stops your transformation at the very first step.
Listen: in any zone of your life where you lie spontaneously, you miss Life in that zone! Spontaneous lying takes away Life from you.
For example, if you carry this pattern into your relationships, it just destroys your relationships.
If you have this pattern with your wife, she will never be able to add what she is supposed to add to your life. You may expect her to add love and romance to your life, but as long as you carry this pattern, she will never be able to add that to your life. In the same way, even though you want your husband to add security to your life, you will never be able to feel secure with him as long as you carry this pattern.
If you have the pattern of spontaneous lying with your mother, you will miss everything that can be added to your life by your mother's presence. And spontaneous lying is the unfortunate and most silly pattern with which you simply stop the Master's grace from showering on you.
Spontaneous lying is a complicated pattern, where you hide your
inauthenticity with your non-integrity! Lying is a direct act of non-integrity. When you use lying to hide your mistake, you are using non-integrity to support your inauthenticity.
Since spontaneous lying is an inauthenticity that arises out of non-integrity, you have to first work on restoring your integrity. Integrity happens with conscious thinking. If your thinking is conscious the whole day, it will continuously align with the commitments you make.
When you are not integrated within yourself, that is when you need to defend yourself through spontaneous lying. If you are not complete with the idea you carry about you, you go on lying spontaneously. Spontaneous lying carries the smell of your non-integrity.
Spontaneous lying is the biggest hurdle in your transformation. Every time you utter a lie, you are moving against the very flow of your life that can take you to the Ultimate. Spontaneous lying is your 'armor' that does not never allow even the Master's energy to work on you. Your spontaneous lying pattern stops me from giving any blessing to you.
Break this pattern of spontaneous lying! It is like the tough skin of the seed which does not allow the seed to become a tree. Only when the seed is ready to break out of its skin and expand its identity, it can become a tree!
Getting it?
So, will you do it?
Examine your life and identify in which zone of your life you most adopt the pattern of spontaneous lying.
Next, put that aside and look deeply into your mamakara.
Lack of integrity is closely linked to internal conflicts in your inner mage. Are you incomplete with some part of your mamakara? What is that that drives you to the unconscious behavior which you call 'mistakes'? You urgently need to complete with that!
Complete and take the responsibility and align yourself to authenticity again.