INTENSITY IS NOT AN EMOTION
Intensity is not an emotion. When you are intense, one part of it may be emotional. The part of intensity that melts and comes out can be called emotion. But intensity cannot be described as an emotion. It is like heat.
For example, when you integrate yourself with intensity, one part of you melts. Let us say the heart melts, then that can be called emotion. Along with your heart, your intellect will also melt, your being will also melt. The side effect of intensity is emotion.
Do not bother about what your intensity should be about. Do not bother about 'towards what'. It should become a quality. Anything you do, whether you touch something or somebody or some object, let the intensity be there, even in that touch.
If you are talking, let the intensity be there. In your relationships, in your decisions, in your memory, in your thinking, in your desires, even in your fears, be intense without escaping from this moment. That is what I call intensity.