WHAT YOU THINK IS JOY IS ALSO NOT JOY
You may think, 'Why should I put all my joyful moments also in the fire?' Whatever you know as joyful moments are not the completely liberating joy, please understand that. They are just superficial joys. Drop them, and you will see a new dimension of intense joy rising in you. Just have the courage and drop all your joys, whatever you understood as joy into the fire. You will see that you will enter into a new dimension, and a different kind of joy will rise in you.
It is like this: when you were a small child, playing with toys was a joy. But now, the very dimension of your joy is different, is it not? Do you enjoy playing with toys now? No! The whole dimension has changed. Do you feel that you are missing all your toys? No! But if I had told you when you were a child, that there is a different dimension in which you can enjoy, would you have been willing to listen to me? No! In the same way I am telling you now that there is yet another deeper dimension waiting for you. So, just place your trust and take the jump.
The very depth of the joy will change. Right now, like how the children play with human dolls calling them mother, father etc, you play with real human dolls calling one your mother, one as father, one as sister, one as brother, one as aunt, etc. You are just playing with all these dolls. Now just relax and drop these dolls. You will understand that your life is something far more valuable and higher than these dolls.